Is it that time of the year again to make a new years resolution do you follow this tradition? not me. I never waited until the end of the year to make a new years resolution but this time I decided to make one.
Learn how to balance between work and family
Ever since I embarked the blogging world I have been so busy on my phone and laptop almost all the time. I’m constantly on my Instagram if not on the internet scouring sales, finding good deals or brainstorming on what to create my next content. I feel bad even if we are at restaurants I still manage to be on my phone checking work emails and Instagram. Social Media to everybody has played and impacted a huge role in our daily life it can be good and it can be bad my resolution I will be using less time with social media I will learn how to balance between work and family like I am no longer using my phone after 4 PM.
Less talk, More actions
For my work, I need to work harder in order for me to achieve my dreams and I am happy that I am slowly getting there even if feels like it is forever I talk a lot I complain a lot don’t we all? I thought blogging is easy but it is not it is just like any other jobs out there I must start somewhere and if from the very bottom. I will work harder and less talk less complaining and just be happy, blessed and content.
I want more, I want these and I want that! Self-content is very hard to practice for us human beings which we do not have we are seeing how blessed and fortunate we are compared to other but this year Instead of wanting more I will be practicing and focusing on self-contentment and be blessed.
Unfriend toxic people in your life
Because having toxic people around is not a good idea. I love friends I’m a friendly person but one thing I do not like are people that have lots of negativity in their life and I do not want that.
Needs over wants. I have so many stuff and every year I find a lot of clothes in my closet that is unworn, dated and some are with tags and what I do? I sell them on Poshmark, if not they’ll be donated. I am going to scour and declutter my entire closet I will be donating the stuff that I no longer need or that I really don’t need instead I will put my money towards for a good cause no more buying expensive bags, makeups, shoes, and gadgets, in other words, no buying things for the gram! if you’re an influencer you know what I mean I feel like our life is devoted to Instagram and it is sad.
Get more Education
I never stop learning I love learning I love going to school and for this resolution, I want to learn how to speak Spanish because I know being lingual is a good thing and I can use my skills in the future I love being bilingual!
Travel more and create memories for your loved ones
I love traveling and will always will! I believe that it is healthy for you because you get to enjoy and unwind and most of all create memories. They say travel more, create memories rather than spending on material things I totally agree to this! because materials are temporary while memories last forever.
Engage more in communities
I love to give a helping hand I want to use myself as an influencer in a good way my goal is to help indigenous people, homeless, unfortunate people I want to build a community with full of love and helping each other anyway that’s what we are born to our other hand is to take while our other hand is for giving.
Be easy to yourself
We all know that we can be hard to our selves I am hard on my self sometimes I hate it so much I think I’m fat, I gained weight, I don’t look good I’m just sometimes not appreciative of what I have while there are many people that are incapable of doing what I can do and yet here I am I tend to be hard to my self. Three weeks ago, I started working out again and eating right but I am no longer in that self-hate I came to realized I just need to love my own self first before I love others and it is true. I need to stop comparing myself to others and most of all I need to stop pushing myself to what others expect me to be I need to become a better me.
I get that sometimes things don’t go in our own way but we still need to be happy, being happy is healthy and being healthy is the key to everything! we only live once why be grumpy and sad if you can smile and make it contagious. do me a favor hug a stranger! I know it is odd but you will never know that person might be needed one! and you’ll just make her/his day.
I hope I inspired you with my New Years resolution for 2018 remember you don’t need to wait till the year ends and every day is a new day there is always hope to whatever circumstance you’re in. May God give you many more blessings this coming year!